Sanctuary for the Abused

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

SEXUAL ABUSE: What it means?

SEXUAL ABUSE: Any means use to get the partner to do any sexual act including intercourse, against partner's will. Making you do anything SEXUAL AGAINST YOUR WILL!! (this includes using verbal and/or emotional coercion to get you to do sexual things, i.e. "I love you, won't you just" or "I want to share this with you because you are so special")

Any physical touch or attack (includes verbal) on the sexual parts of your body that are not wanted

Treating you like a sex object--talking to you as though you are only good for sex (this includes turning conversations to sexual talk or sexual activity)

Any kind of sexual activity that is done to you while:
Drug Induced
(Emotionally brainwashed or coerced)

Telling friends what he did to you sexuality, bragging

Putting you down for being sexual with him

Raping you

Forcing you to have sex with other people, encouraging you to have sex with other people

Forcing you to have sex with an animal

Hitting, pinching, or any other action that causes you pain during any sexual activity

Demanding sex after physically abusing you

Tying you and then having sex with you

Forcing you to watch pornography (or coercing you, i.e. "I wish we could do this...") or giving it to you under false pretenses (i.e. "I love you so much I want to do this to you")

Calling you names such as whore or slut, etc.

Telling dirty jokes or jokes that degrade women

Your sexual partner knowingly giving you a sexually transmitted disease from someone else

Having sex with other people when you've agreed that you won't and not allowing you to do the same, or telling you about it.

(** additional comments from site owner)

Thanks to HOLLY for bringing this to my attention!
shared by Barbara at 5:47 AM



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