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Tuesday, June 19, 2018
Blogiversary for Sanctuary for the Abused
WOW - 15 years on the net for Sanctuary for the Abused!. I have used this blog in reaching out to help others heal from abuse or pathological relationships. If I helped even one person... mission accomplished.
Thank you to everyone and anyone who ever read or shared even one post!!
Happy Anniversary! When I found your blog two years ago my now ex-husband had just walked out on me and our two teen boys. He had been mentally, emotionally and verbally abusive to me for 20 years. When he walked out that door little did I know that my life was going to become so much better. It was the hardest two years I have ever been through, but I am now a stronger more confident woman and proud to say that divorcing him was the healthiest thing I could have done for myself. Your blog taught me so much about what I had been experiencing and showed me that I truly was not crazy. Everything that had gone on for 20 years of my life, since the age of 24, was real and had happened, and my ex was the crazy one. I love my life now, I'm not afraid to stand up for myself and I have a new man that is genuinely caring and loving and we have a healthy relationship. It is only what I've dreamed of and never thought was possible, but now I see that there are healthy men out there and your posts helped to teach me the signs to look for in psychopaths so as not to fall in that trap again. Bless you for all you do! Happy Easter!
Barbara I will never be able to thank you enough for giving me the information I needed to make my own decision.
You even did some chatting with me, gratis, a few times. I don't care what anyone says about you - you do walk the walk and you know what you are talking about.
One year ago I did not know that the term 'narcissist' meant anything aside from someone being an egomaniac. I knew, tho, that I felt like I was going crazy due to years of what I now know as gaslighting and spath abuse. Findng Sanctuary saved me, as I now have clarity and found a path to recovery. Happy Blogiversary & Thank You! I'm not the fragile / frightened person I used to be due to the honest & non-judgmental exchanges that are shared in this site, which helped me find my way through the confusion. Much Love.
Happy Anniversary! When I found your blog two years ago my now ex-husband had just walked out on me and our two teen boys. He had been mentally, emotionally and verbally abusive to me for 20 years. When he walked out that door little did I know that my life was going to become so much better.
ReplyDeleteIt was the hardest two years I have ever been through, but I am now a stronger more confident woman and proud to say that divorcing him was the healthiest thing I could have done for myself.
Your blog taught me so much about what I had been experiencing and showed me that I truly was not crazy. Everything that had gone on for 20 years of my life, since the age of 24, was real and had happened, and my ex was the crazy one.
I love my life now, I'm not afraid to stand up for myself and I have a new man that is genuinely caring and loving and we have a healthy relationship. It is only what I've dreamed of and never thought was possible, but now I see that there are healthy men out there and your posts helped to teach me the signs to look for in psychopaths so as not to fall in that trap again.
Bless you for all you do! Happy Easter!
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ReplyDeleteCongrats!
ReplyDeleteWOO HOO!
Barbara I will never be able to thank you enough for giving me the information I needed to make my own decision.
ReplyDeleteYou even did some chatting with me, gratis, a few times. I don't care what anyone says about you - you do walk the walk and you know what you are talking about.
God Bless you.
I have only subscribed to your blog for a week or so but you have already been such a blessing to me. I have told others about your blog too.
DeleteOne year ago I did not know that the term 'narcissist' meant anything aside from someone being an egomaniac. I knew, tho, that I felt like I was going crazy due to years of what I now know as gaslighting and spath abuse. Findng Sanctuary saved me, as I now have clarity and found a path to recovery. Happy Blogiversary & Thank You! I'm not the fragile / frightened person I used to be due to the honest & non-judgmental exchanges that are shared in this site, which helped me find my way through the confusion. Much Love.
ReplyDeleteHello I think I'm with a PA man. I am in a state of dark depression. I'm so confused. Tammy
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